“He needs to do manual kidney dialysis four times a day,” Althea said. He has an upcoming appointment where doctors will determine if he’s eligible for a dialysis machine, which would reduce it to one a day. In the long term, they’re hoping he can eventually have a transplant.
“Even though we have a sickness in the family, this is our first Christmas together in eight years,” Althea said. “So I’m so happy and thankful.”
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In the search for work and stability, Althea had been separated from her husband and four children for nearly eight years.
Her journey began when she moved from her native Philippines to Hong Kong for employment in 2012. After two years, she wound up in Canada, where she worked as a nanny and lived with her aunt in the West Island. All that time, she was only able to visit her family once.
“To not see them for so many years, it was so lonely,” she said. “But I had no choice — I had to do it.”
In March, she was finally reunited with her family. With the pandemic arriving a week later, this moment ended up being a little bittersweet, although it gave the kids a chance to spend some time at home with their mother in their new apartment while their father worked.
Then in the summer, her husband started to feel ill. He experienced shortness of breath and constant fatigue. They were still waiting for his medicare card to arrive, so out of caution they didn’t immediately go to the hospital. When they finally did, the diagnosis was kidney failure. He only had six per cent functionality of his kidney left.