DEAR DEIDRE: FOR some reason, I keep picking fights with my husband. I’m unhappy and feel like I’m wasting my life.
He’s 42 and I’m 43. He is a good man and a very good dad but he’s boring as hell.
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Our sex life has never been great – once a month and over in two minutes.
He does lots round the house but never makes me feel special. He never comes up with ideas, he just does what I suggest.
He never goes out with his mates and that makes me feel guilty for having a night out with mine. I’m totally drained and I feel I’ve missed out on a much better life.
My children are teens now, I need to be thinking of me.
first cutCaught my girl in bed with another man... then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTERI had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
HOTEL HELLMy girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
Little secretMy brother-in-law is my daughter's real father... and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
FAMILY AFFAIRFamily are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
Guilty sexI had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
BlackmailedI've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
anti-climaxLove my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
FESTI-FAILI had hot sex at Glastonbury... but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
TOUGH CHOICEI'm having sex with my girlfriend's bestie... who's also dating my best mate
DEIDRE SAYS: You must be careful or you could make life much worse. He’s done nothing wrong. In fact, he sounds better than many.
It’s not the end of the world for you to be the one who comes up with ideas and does the arranging.
Your children still need you both and a calm, stable home. But now they are teens you have more freedom to rev up your marriage again.
The guidance in my e-leaflet Help Your Man Last Longer will help.
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