In recent years, the legal landscape surrounding pet custody during divorce has undergone significant changes, reflecting society's evolving perception of pets as family members. A 2023 Pew Center survey revealed that 97% of American pet owners consider their animals part of the family, with over half valuing them as much as human relatives. This shift in attitude has led to new legal considerations and challenges in divorce proceedings.
Sharyn Umaña's story exemplifies the emotional complexities involved in pet custody arrangements. When she and her husband separated in November 2023, Umaña initially planned to relinquish rights to their 5-year-old Miniature Australian Shepherd, Ozzy. However, unable to bear a permanent separation, they included a clause in their divorce agreement allowing for a trial period with Ozzy in the future.
The legal status of pets in the United States has traditionally classified them as property. However, since Alaska passed the first pet custody law in 2017, seven more states and the District of Columbia have followed suit. These laws allow judges to consider factors such as emotional bonds and time spent with the pet when determining custody arrangements.
Rebecca Wisch, associate editor of the Animal Legal and Historical Center at Michigan State University College of Law, notes that while these laws reflect changing family dynamics, they often prioritize human emotions over animal welfare. This sentiment is echoed by Karis Nafte, a certified dog behavior consultant and pet custody specialist, who cautions against shared custody arrangements for most pets.
Nafte's experience suggests that dogs are the only animals suitable for shared custody, and even then, only in rare cases. She advises minimizing transitions and avoiding alternating week schedules, which can be stressful for animals. This advice is supported by the experience of Michelle Martin, who attempted 50/50 shared custody of her golden retrievers after her divorce in 2022. While one dog adapted, the other struggled, leading to a revised arrangement.
"We want to imagine that our dogs cannot live without us, but that's just not the case. Dogs can be just fine if they say goodbye to one of their owners."
As the legal system continues to evolve, more pet owners are taking proactive measures. Mary Vidas, a matrimonial and family lawyer, encourages couples to include pet arrangements in prenuptial agreements. Similarly, Nafte advocates for "pet nups" in all households, regardless of marital status, to prevent future disputes.
The importance of considering pets' well-being in custody arrangements cannot be overstated. As Nafte points out, "They're at our mercy. We owe it to them to take care of them." This sentiment reflects the growing recognition of the human-animal bond, which the American Veterinary Medical Association acknowledges as a mutually beneficial relationship.
As pet ownership continues to rise, with approximately 70% of U.S. households owning a pet as of 2021, the need for clear and compassionate pet custody laws becomes increasingly apparent. These laws not only protect the emotional interests of pet owners but also ensure the welfare of the animals caught in the middle of relationship breakdowns.