We shared what the bridesmaids requested of the bride and the shocking reaction she received in the weeks before the wedding.
A frustrated friend explained on her Reddit how she called a bride who was late in booking things and left her bridal party with mundane tasks.
"She seems to be ending her friendship with this," user posted on her infamous AITA channel. On this channel, people seek advice on life and struggles.
This user wrote that Jan, a friend of 15 years, got engaged last spring.
The Redditor hosted her engagement party, started a text her thread for Jan himself and another bridesmaid her Sarah, and helped her plan the wedding. , agreed to contact her base once a week.
Since then, users claim that Yang's wedding chat has far exceeded the allotted time.
"It replaces all conversation. We seem to want to talk about what's going on in our lives as well," said the bridesmaid.
``I don't like Sarah. I said we need to give and take more about our friendship.”
The Redditor said it was okay to discuss the wedding with Jan. This is because the conversation will flow more smoothly that way. Sarah and Jan say they are "committed" to their friendship.
Things spilled over when a user visited Jean, who lives 1,000 miles away from her.
"I visited Jean for her one week, my birthday, and noticed that she had not booked anything other than the venue. It's her planner," she wrote. It's a matter of control when it comes to this kind of thing (i.e. I get anxious when I see people failing or not doing something themselves when they can fix it themselves) so if you don't book properly
She told Jenn to keep in touch with her if things got too nagging.ke Jan's wedding website and the invitation insert while Jan goes to the appointment.
That night the bride also had an envelope for her bridal party.
"We'll stuff the envelopes later, but she says she's on the phone with her mother when she sees us all stuffing the envelopes and she's so happy it's over."
Then things took a different turn, and Jean started texting Redditors with things like, "Would you like me to bring this for your wedding?"
"I talk to her and say I'm happy to talk and help her with her plans, but I don't want to do it for her and I feel like I'm being bullied. She booked a vendor," she wrote.
She went on to tell the bride that if there was no action behind all the talk about the wedding, it wouldn't be productive and she wanted to cut it down.
} "She is out of action for the rest of the trip. Almost a month and a half later, she is unable to speak on the phone and seems unable to carry on a conversation," the Redditor wrote.
She added in a comment:
"She seems to be trying to cut off friendships over this matter. I tried to talk to her but couldn't get through, so I asked her fiancée if she could help me."
Many reassured her Redditor that she was doing nothing wrong.
One commenter told a user to wash her hands at a wedding and advise Jan to use her event planner.
"It is not your responsibility to organize or plan this girl's wedding. If she wants a wedding, she will grow up and work for herself."
"She seems so narcissistic that she doesn't recognize or care how her actions are perceived. I want to collect, but I don't want to make an effort," said another.
