Robert Bernstein a tax lawyer at the Justice Department made an unexpected career shift to gay rights activism. This change was sparked by his daughters revelation of her sexuality roughly 37 years ago
Upon learning this news Bernstein penned a heartfelt letter to his daughter. He emphasized that her sexuality was as irrelevant as her hair color or music taste and didnt affect her inherent worth as a person. This moment marked the beginning of Bernsteins transformation from a self-described “recovering homophobe“ to a staunch advocate for LGBTQ+ rights
Bernstein became a bridge between parents and their gay children encouraging acceptance and support. He took on roles with PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) and authored books on the subject. His efforts were aimed at helping other parents navigate the journey he had experienced
Bernsteins advocacy extended beyond writing and speaking. He participated in the 1987 March on Washington which was a turning point in his understanding of the movements importance. The overwhelming response from young demonstrators to the presence of supportive parents left a lasting impression on him
Born on 2/20/26 in Colorado Bernstein had a varied career before his activism. He worked as a journalist and later earned a law degree. His personal struggles with mental health particularly depression also influenced his advocacy work
Bernsteins impact on the LGBTQ+ rights movement was significant. He witnessed major milestones like the repeal of “dont ask dont tell“ about 13 years ago and the legalization of same-sex marriage roughly 9 years back. His efforts contributed to these changes by fostering understanding and acceptance among parents of LGBTQ+ individuals
My education began when I realized‚ the next day‚ that she remained the same warm‚ talented and gracious young woman who had always made her family proud
Bernstein passed away about a month ago at the age of 98 leaving behind a legacy of love acceptance and tireless advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights