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Recognizing your selfish side isn’t the easiest thing to do, but there are a few clues that can help you see the traits and reflect on them. Use these signs and find out if you’re being selfish in your relationship. Below are five signs which indicates that you are being selfish in your relationship.
You want it your way. You always like doing something your way or going to places you like, even if your partner wants to do something different. If your partner coaxes you to do something else or go to another place, you sulk or pout the whole while. And as soon as your partner gives in to your bidding and does what you say, you cheer up instantly and cozy up with your partner. You always want things to go your way and only your way. Anything other than that, you feel uneasy, and you become passive-aggressive towards your partner.
Your huge ego is a sign you’re being selfish. You believe that losing an argument is a sign of weakness. And you just don’t like losing a fight or ending a discussion that goes against your way. This is something you do, not just in your relationship, but in every part of your life. If you’re asking, am I selfish, assess your ego to know the answer to this question. If you always want to win the argument each time and you never apologize first because you want to be above them, there’s your answer. This is one of the big signs you’re being selfish in the relationship.
You can’t trust your partner easily. You love your partner, but you’re always cautious about trusting them entirely because you sincerely believe that you’re the only one you can rely on for happiness. Even if you’re dating a great guy or girl, you always look out for yourself first before looking out for your lover’s needs because you think that’s what your partner would do anyway! No matter your reason for not trusting them, the fact you don’t trust them speaks volumes in being a selfish lover.
You don’t apologize. Do you get a hard lump in your throat each time you have to apologize to your partner?.You may say you’re sorry very often when you don’t mean it, or for trivial things. But when it’s something that really matters, do you hold yourself back or defend yourself even though you know you’re in the wrong?
Their successes hurt you. Just like being overly competitive in your relationship, you struggle to be happy for your partner’s accomplishments and successes. If you can’t be happy and you always feel the need to be better than your partner, there’s your answer for am I selfish?
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