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Summer is officially here. And then comes the latest internet trends that encourage us to get our hair down and (literally) runaway.
I'm talking aboutFeralGirl Summer
The phrase from TikTok isHotGirl Summer riff, Became a hit single made by rapper Megan Thee Stallion in 2019. As TikTokerHorrible.Glitterexplains in a video post, Feral Girl Summer avoids the pressure of putting everything together and instead accepts its own confusion and confusion – raw pasta. Eat a glass of food, drink a diet pop first thing in the morning, and explore the Reddit Wormhole at 4am. After the last 2.5 years of excessive vigilance and the "age without president", it's no wonderFeral Girl Summer feels like a welcome relief and is also gaining popularity online. No wonder. To gain insight into how the spirit of
Feral Girl Summer is reflected in our sexual life, I am Javay Frye-Nekrasova,We -vibeI talked to a sex educator. Feral Girl Summer is a joy expert who shared by email that it was all about being unbound. Carefree means you don't care about anything, but being unbound means that things don't hinder or hinder you. You will be freed from social expectations, "dating rules", niceness that goes against what we find fun, everything that doesn't help us or add happiness to our lives, "she says. increase.
Frye-Nekrasova predicts that this trend will lead to a sexually empowered summer. "If you really work to be unrestrained, you're not ashamed to tell someone that what they're doing doesn't work, you don't fake orgasms, you're for additional joy Don't be afraid to break your toys, "says Frye-Nekrasova.
If you're ready to drive around the city with a spectacular garbage score like a Toronto raccoon, Frye-Nekrasova has some professional tips for staying safe and healthy.
Test regularly.
Take sexual health seriously, regardless of age. "You can have all the fun you want, but if you don't stop at taking care of your body, it's all in vain," says Frye-Nekrasova.
She encourages people to test regularly every 3-6 months and prepare for sex. "I don't know when my mood will hit or when a connection will be established. Keep safer sex material at hand, such as barrier methods and contraception (if you have sex that can lead to pregnancy). Please, "says Frye-Nekrasova.
Frankly.
If you're looking forward to raising the freak flag this summer, direct communication is essential. Even if it feels awkward at first, you cannot expect it to meet your needs unless you express it. Instead, Frye-Nekrasova recommends to wild people that "it makes people comfortable by saying,'I'm just looking for a fling.'" , "I think we need to slow down" etc.
She said, "It can be daunting to interact with people, especially when it comes to dating and sex topics," while "why hit around the bushes and it doesn't help you." Or do you stay in a situation where you don't add it? " Your happiness and joy.
Respect your boundaries.
Finally,Feral Girl Summer is not as versatile as sexuality. That's why Frye-Nekrasova proposes to establish her own boundaries before roaming the wilderness. "If you don't know what you want, what's okay, what you don't support, and everything in between, you can't really keep the boundaries, so figure them out before you go." She says.
After all, one person's "raw pasta and diet cork" is a solid root canal for another. Understand what Feral Girl Summer means to you and proceed from there.
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