When in a relationship, it's not common to bring an ex-partner into a new one. In fact, it's not the topic of conversation you want. Another thing that seems unusual is inviting your ex to an anniversary dinner with your new partner. However, one woman claimed that this was exactly what happened to her, with her current boyfriend always raising his ex-girlfriend and even inviting her to join him.
She said that Use Mom's Net to express disgust that your boyfriend is constantly reminding you of your ex-partner, and that he invited her to his one year anniversary and completely ignored you. I explained that I did. eating.
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She wrote: Our 'song'.
``For context, we got together. That. was always there and it was a big group so it wasn't a problem, but at lunch work socials she was there (they worked together our first year ).
''On our first anniversary, he brought her to our dinner and talked with her throughout. I ordered. Also bought a new red bike helmet the same day and my ex-girlfriend said she likes it.
It was too much for me to get up and go outside, and they "both" followed me. She didn't get the hint to go. Move away at this point. I literally had to live with the embarrassment of the situation, it was him to her, not you. , a lot of little things happened over the next two years, but I walked past them, thinking it was me, nothing sexual or disrespectful to me, but a sense of solidarity
"We moved in together. We've been together longer than we were together in the first place, now six and a half years. But he bought me a ring and said he wanted it to be just between him and me. }
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Getty Images/Tetra images RF)"When I was with a group of us that included an ex-girlfriend, they put the ring on. Look, all the girls were yelling with excitement, I declined, it was just a gift (diamonds, but I think it's a flower, not a big stone) and my ex-girlfriend's sister approached came and grabbed my hand and threw it away and ran to my sister without saying a word came and took my hand too d (the ring is on 'that' finger) I said again it was It's just a gift, she said Oh, it's really nice She started arguing with people and getting louder and louder, so I told my boyfriend let's go. she is not with us. I want to go He said okay and we left. It was a nervous ride home.
"At first she seemed to feel for her because she must have loved him, but it didn't work. I really tried to come to terms with her behavior." but it popped into my head and started pissing me off (she is also in a relationship of 4 1/2 years now) so I thought... when he and I met he had been separated for 4 years. , 6.5 years later you have your own boyfriend and you still react that way. 78}
"I told my boyfriend how I felt and he tried to support her saying 'I got the ring' but it didn't work. It's clearly not now."
"So go on for a few months (I've been trying not to go (Go outside when she's there) No bad feelings, just my feelings for her have changed and I need to work them out, but for now, I don't want to be around her.
"I was watching a documentary on the band last night and what did he say when he said this was our song? Remember when we first got together, at the X place?" It was playing all the time, he said yes, but there was no real feeling (I touched on this song earlier), but I knew he felt the same way.
``Anyway'' he said that the band will be joining us next year. and he said we should go, although he didn't feel "the vibe of our song." was singing it. It just hit me in the gut.
"I looked at him in disbelief and said, shut up and stop talking you bastards. What? Remember, you say, ``My ex-girlfriend would love it. Please keep it in mind. Once in the first anniversary. And once, when she flipped her ring over. I never said anything, but I've never had a similar situation before.
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People immediately defended the woman and wondered why she was still having an affair with a man if her man was manipulating.
One wrote: This was accepted.
Another said: 'I agree, why the hell were you with him? This should have ended after a ridiculous first anniversary. You should 100% stay away from him.”
One accused men of pretending to be women, writing: A***hole or incredibly insensitive tagging along your dates and anniversaries.
``I'm sorry, but you deserve more than this. It should stop.”
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Another angrily said: "Don't be sad. Be mad at this bastard, but don't get out of this horrible 'pick me' situation he put you in." Rejoice, your future will be happier without your boyfriend, without your girlfriend."
