DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband blames our two sons for the rubbishy things that he’s done. It kills me inside.
I found sex-chat line numbers on his phone when our sons were still at primary school. When I confronted him he had the gall to blame our eight-year-old. That killed my trust in the man and it’s never come back.
He still blames the boys for a pack of condoms I found in his car boot, even though they had long since left home by then. I know who’d put it there, of course. It was him.
He cheated on me more than ten years ago. I found his profile on dating sites but he said he didn’t know how it got up there.
He’s 49 and I’m 47. He never takes responsibility for his actions and I’m thinking of leaving. I hate him so much when he blames things on others, especially our sons.
first cut Caught my girl in bed with another man... then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTER I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
HOTEL HELL My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
Little secret My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father... and my husband has no idea
More, more, more! Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
FAMILY AFFAIR Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
Guilty sex I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
Blackmailed I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
anti-climax Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
FESTI-FAIL I had hot sex at Glastonbury... but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
TOUGH CHOICE I'm having sex with my girlfriend's bestie... who's also dating my best mate
DEIDRE SAYS: I can totally understand your resentment but holding on to that bitterness will take all chances of joy from your life yet resolves nothing in your relationship.
Do you want a divorce? Do you want to stay? Think about what you most want.
Read my e-leaflet Standing Up For Yourself.
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