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My husband keeps blaming other people for his cheating and bad behaviour

HORRIBLE HUSBAND

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband blames our two sons for the rubbishy things that he’s done. It kills me inside.

I found sex-chat line numbers on his phone when our sons were still at primary school. When I confronted him he had the gall to blame our eight-year-old. That killed my trust in the man and it’s never come back.

He still blames the boys for a pack of condoms I found in his car boot, even though they had long since left home by then. I know who’d put it there, of course. It was him.

He cheated on me more than ten years ago. I found his profile on dating sites but he said he didn’t know how it got up there.

He’s 49 and I’m 47. He never takes responsibility for his actions and I’m thinking of leaving. I hate him so much when he blames things on others, especially our sons.

DEIDRE SAYS: I can totally understand your resentment but holding on to that bitterness will take all chances of joy from your life yet resolves nothing in your relationship.

Do you want a divorce? Do you want to stay? Think about what you most want.

Read my e-leaflet Standing Up For Yourself.

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