Couples can take different approaches when it comes to money. For some, it's easiest for everyone to always pay their way. } How would you feel if your partner asked you to pay more to earn more and you didn't say no?
A woman expects her fiancé not only to treat herself, butto pay for her friend even after raising her salary. is therefore in a difficult position.
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When heinvited her to dinner,attempted to ambush her with a bill.
Her Reddit post The miserable night ended with a sneak out of the restaurant.
On her website's "Am I the A******e" forum, the runaway diner claimed that there had only been a few similar incidents that night. did. Posting as
u/Throwaway795571, she wrote: I got a pay rise, now he earns 30% more than he does, I realized he used this to ask me to pay him and his friends, I said "no ' or 'Why should I pay for this? 'He'll reply 'That's why the 30%.' He'll act as if he's unfair at the 30% or I don't deserve it.
Publicly me His friend's meal by asking. I am too kind to say no. I hate confrontation, especially when I'm in a public place like a restaurant, so I smirk and pay.
"Last Tuesday, he asked me to join him and his companions for dinner. At first I wasn't paying for their food and he shouldn't have expected me to pay.
``We arrived at the restaurant. We met his friends and ordered some food. whispered that I would pay for everything he ordered. I guess they were relying on me not to make a fuss in front of them. % I remember.'"
She continued. Then I went to the restroom. Then I sneaked out of there, got in the car and drove home. started coming in. I replied saying I didn't appreciate the way he put me in this situation and basically tricked me into paying for food for him and his friends I told him I was home but he stopped responding.
"An hour later he came in and said he was selfish, unreasonable, stingy and childish. , started yelling at me for sneaking out like that and leaving me stuck with a bill I can't pay.help me) we argued loudly and he walked away.
"His friend didn't talk to me about the matter, but he said he was disappointed with my behavior. Consider the type of woman he marries."
The woman then asked another Reddit user whether her fiancé had acted fairly, adding that he later admitted that he had knowingly failed to tell her what was expected of him. . He knew she would refuse, but the restaurant was "not expensive," so he thought it would be acceptable.
One person said: "I think you are the one who needs to think about the type of man you marry. …"
Another agreement: "He must be your ex-girlfriend. Instead of being happy with your accomplishments, he is bitter and jealous."
And someone else said, "Why would you marry someone who claims that his money is his money and your money is his money too?"
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