This book was written by psychologist Greg Matos and describes the opportunities for dating heterosexual men. It reveals that it decreases as the standard of relationships increases.
Psychologists say women are now only dating men who share the same values, have good communication skills, and are emotionally available to her. I explained. Praise the Lord!
Toxic Men out and a respectful stud in.
First, let's get out the violin and play a sad melody for the guys After treating women like sheer trash, they find themselves single and alone now How unfair to these poor creatures!
See, while they bed-hopped, ghosted, breadcrumbsand distracted us women of all kinds, we quietly And subtly embraced this culture of "self-love" that began to emerge in TED Talks, TikTok videos, YouTube channels, and various other online formats.
Oprah preached: Don't stop thinking it will get better. If you stay when things aren't going your way, you'll be mad at yourself a year from now.
We all remember her famous "light bulb moment" I experienced her one.
If you dig through the archives, you can find old articles in women's magazines teaching women different ways to "please their husbands."
We laugh now and say, "I'm glad times have changed," but dig deeper and you'll find that today's dating scene still has a strong undercurrent of misogyny. increase.
A year or so ago I had a falling out with a male friend when I was trying to match him. Sadly, I had to let him down softly after the woman he wanted politely declined. Blessings, I want a child.”
She was seven years younger than him. *ha*
He's just an example of a 'lonely bachelor'.
I dated a man not long ago and we both set pretty healthy boundaries early in our relationship.
For the next week I was 'mean', please don't contact him again, why didn't I respond (?! ), and finally a barrage of text messages saying, "You've made a very powerful enemy." ”.
Yes, he threatened me if I didn't back down. *eye roll.*
Then there was a very distant family who cornered me at a party and gave me unwanted advice as to why I was still single.
When I tried to explain to him that I was very happy with the life I made for myself and still enjoyed intimacy (probably more than a loveless marriage), he yelled out, I barked. How must I lower my standards and calm down.
When finally I shouted, "But I don't want to!" his head kind of exploded. The idea that a woman could feel fully empowered on her own is… outrageous.
In my experience, it is true.
Gone are the days of laughing at the boys who pushed us We had a playground because they were secretly in love with us. You want attention and are not interested in being teased. just tell us.
And trust me. As a notorious "anxiety-avoidant" who would rather show vulnerability in all its forms than abandon men, I know it's hard!
But, I did it I went to a therapist to learn tools for building emotional intelligence and put them into practice.
Of course, I should add a disclaimer that I'm not talking about all men. I have been blessed with her two brothers who are thoughtful, caring and treat women equally. Both are in thriving relationships.
So I want to say to you lonely single men, maybe it's time for a little introspection. With just a few tweaks, we are all equal and living in a better world.
