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First she lost her friend, George Floyd. Then she lost her sister to Covid-19

The Houston mother said she was still reeling over the death of Floyd, her friend, when she lost her sister less than four months later to the coronavirus.

Mallard and Floyd met in the ninth grade at Jack Yates High School in Houston. She was a cheerleader and Floyd played for both the football and basketball teams.

"You couldn't miss him because he was so tall," Mallard said.

Because of his height, Floyd was given the nickname "Big Floyd."

Ruby Mallard and George Floyd attended Jack Yates High School in Houston. Portions of this image have been obscured to protect people's identities. Circles drawn on the image were added by the source of the image.
Ruby Mallard and George Floyd attended Jack Yates High School in Houston. Portions of this image have been obscured to protect people's identities. Circles drawn on the image were added by the source of the image.

Ruby Mallard and George Floyd attended Jack Yates High School in Houston. Portions of this image have been obscured to protect people's identities. Circles drawn on the image were added by the source of the image.

"He was so quiet. He really didn't speak unless he was spoken to," said Mallard. She remembers Floyd as being reserved and not being one to boast about himself.

Mallard said she found out about Floyd's death in the parking lot of her dentist's office. She happened to have checked Facebook before her dental appointment and saw her high school classmate post "Rest in Peace Big Floyd."

It was not until several hours later that Mallard learned how he died and saw the pictures and video clips starting to circulate online. "I was in shock and lost it," Mallard said. "I really lost it."

She said that to this day, she has not seen the entire video of Floyd pleading for help. "I turn my TV (off) instantly," she said, when she sees the video being played.

Mallard said she feels outraged and adds, "A human is not made to process all of this."

The loss of her sister

Mallard's sister, Patricia Ashley, died September 14 of complications from the coronavirus. She was 53. Ashley spent 27 days in the hospital, 20 of them on a ventilator in the intensive care unit.

Patricia Ashley
Patricia Ashley

Ashley was a preschool teacher at a private school in Houston.

Mallard described her sister as the "protector" for the family and always "taking care of everyone, including strangers." Ashley continued ordering care for her stroke-stricken husband from her ICU hospital bed before she was put on a ventilator.

"She was a caring person, and she was problem-solver for everyone. She had a genuine concern for everyone," said Mallard. She said she misses talking to her sister every day on the phone, saying that sometimes they would even call each other almost 10 times a day.

Ashley is survived by her husband of almost 25 years, Robert; her three children, Myron, Robert and Ashley; and 15 grandchildren. In addition to Ruby, Ashley also leaves behind their mother, Hattie, and their brother, Darrell.

Patricia Ashley and her mother, Hattie Hensley
Patricia Ashley and her mother, Hattie Hensley

Life after loss

Ruby Mallard
Ruby Mallard

Ruby Mallard

Mallard urges people to continue wearing their masks and following safety protocols. She is a data specialist for Fort Bend County Health & Human Services, and says her job makes her very familiar with the death rates from the coronavirus pandemic.

Mallard is currently planning her sister's funeral.

"My cup has runneth over in emotion," said Mallard. However, she said she finds joy and comfort through her daughter, Kynedi, and wants to remain strong for her.

When asked how she is surviving after the losses, Mallard said, "I can't imagine it getting any worse."

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